Was able to get the datepicker to open with this code:
{name:'effDT',index:'effDT', sorttype:”date”, width:40, editable:true,
editoptions: {size: 10, maxlengh: 10,dataInit:function(element)
{$(element).datepicker()}}},
I was then getting 'URL not set' error, so I added this code to the grid definition:
editurl:'url',
cellsubmit:'clientArray',